No more tricks to improve your public speaking skills

by:  Ellen Egan

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We have all seen the books and courses on public speaking that tell you of the “Top ten tricks for public speaking brilliance”. When we open up the book or the course, it is filled with advice on removing the “umms” and “ahhs” from your speech. Or, we are told to practice voice techniques and eye contact. While all of this is good advice to polish your public speaking, it does little to deal with the core issues of public speaking fear or the person who wants to seriously develop their public speaking skills.

Training in public speaking is not just a matter of externals like voice, body language and eye contact. It’s not about conforming to standards or imitating the skills of someone you admire. Public speaking is about you speaking in public. I know, that’s pretty obvious but many people miss this critical point. The first thing we must understand is that we have to have something of value to share, to speak about in public. If there is nothing of value to share, then no tricks or training will make the talker anything more than a person taking up space and time.

So, the starting point is here.

1. What do you have of value to share with your audience? Do you have an idea, a product, a service, some information, etc. that will improve their lives and/or solve a problem?

Take a pen right now and write down at least five things of value that you have to share with an audience. You will probably find that have more than five when you begin listing all your experiences, ideas, information, etc.

2. How do you know it is of value to your audience? Take the time to find out as much as you can about your audience so that you can tailor your message so that it is clear to them that it is of value.

Take a pen right now and write as much as you can about your audience. Who are they? What do they already know about your topic wnd what do they want to know? Why are they going to listen to you?

Once you clearly have something of value to say and you know enough about your audience to see how it is of value to them, then you can begin crafting the presentation. At this point we can bring in the important aspects of writing a powerful speech, practicing techniques to deliver a strong presentation and using tricks to capture and hold attention.

Make a great cake (that you know your audience will like) and then add the frosting.

Public speaking essentials – It’s all about your audience

by: Ellen Egan

I have been in public speaking for many years.  I have coached countless peole on how to improve their public speaking skills and how to develop individual classes, seminars, short presentations, etc.  I shouldn’t be surprised, but I still am.  I am suprised at how often peole forget what is at the core of their presentation/speech/seminar.

The Audience.  What your audience wants and/or needs to hear should be the foundation of what you present.  You can have the most well researched, fantastic, captivating, etc. presentation that the world has ever seen. But, if its not what the audience wants or needs to hear, it’s no good.

Ok, I’ll get off my soapbox.  I have done a set of articles on the subject of Audience Analysis (please see www.ezinearticles.com) and a series of blog posts breaking down the aspects of audience analysis and how important it is to developing a strong presentation. Please see blogs starting around end  July 2009.

It all comes down to four big questions.  Who, What, Why and How.

1.  Who -  Who are they?  Your audience- what age, sex, education, background, etc. Get a clear picture in your mind of your audinece and who they are and you will be much better able the understand their perspective and what they need from your presentation.

2.  What -  What is the topic?  What is it about this topic that is important to your audience?  What is the problem that this topic presents and what information are you going to provide that will offer a solution?  What do you specifically have to offer them (e.g. a solution, a service, information)?

3.  Why - Why are they there.  Why are they bothering to spend the time to listen to you?  Do they need this course for a degree or a certification?  Did thier boss require that they are there?  Are they trying to find the answer to a perplexing problem?  Why are you there and what do you want to get out of the experience?

4.  How - How are you going to deliver your presentation so that they can get what they need from it (e.g. Will you use graphs and props.  Will you do a song and dance.  Will you bring in other experts)?  How are you going to customize your presentation, based on the answers to the Who, What and Why, to ensure that they get what they want and need from your presentation.

If you can step up on stage with the full understanding of the perspective of the people sitting in the audience.  And, you have built your presentation based on the understanding of their wants and needs.  You are are 90% or more on the path to success.  No dog and pony show needed.

Keep coming back to these questions as you develop your presentation, and you are sure to prepare a successful presentation.  The added benefit is that you will feel much more confident as you step on stage because you will know that you are presenting something that your audience wants/needs to hear.

To your success,

Ellen

Tips for better public speaking – Don’t make a speech

By Ellen Egan:

Many books on public speaking and experts on public speaking will tell you how to make a speech.  But, I would suggest that if you want to improve (and more thoroughly enjoy) your public speaking, you should focus less on delivering a speech and more on having a conversation with your audience.  This will improve your public speaking experience in several ways.

1.  Your audience will feel more comfortable with you.  We tend to feel more comfortable, listen more attentively and have greater respect for people who speak with us rather than people who speak at us.  Conversations are naturally more engaging both for the person who is talking and for the person who is listening.

2. You will feel more comfortable.  You have conversations every day.  It’s a very natural thing.  If you begin to view your public speaking opportunities as conversations, the “fear factor” of delivering a formal speech will dissipate.

3.  Your audience will absorb and retain the information better.  As I mentioned earlier, people learn or retain information better when they are engaged in the process.  If someone is talking at you, it is very easy to drift off into your own thoughts because you are not truly involved in the communication process.   However, in a conversation, you are part of the process and therefore, more apt to pay attention.  When your audience is paying attention, they are more likely to hear and absorb what you are saying.

OK, Ellen.  We are convinced.  But the question is…

“How do we do this?”

1.  Begin by removing some of the barriers to natural communication like staring at your notes and index cards.  Remove physical barriers like the podium.  Remove acronyms, “tech speak” and jargon from your presentation.

2.  Make eye contact as much as  possible.  If you find this difficult, then find one or two friendly faces in the room and speak with them as much as possible (ideally they are in different parts of the room).  If that is still too difficult, then  speak with one or two people’s noses.  It looks like you’re making eye contact, even when you aren’t.

3.  Include questions within your speech – especially in the introduction.  By including questions in your introduction, you are establishing the conversational style from the beginning.  You can choose questions that require audience interaction – this is ideal, but may be intimidating at first.  Or, you can ask a question that doesn’t need audience interaction, but the audience can answer in their own minds (e.g. “Do you think most people want to improve their careers?”).  Then, answer the question. “Yes, we do!”.  You can also use  questions and frame your presentation to  appeal to the audience’s natural curiosity and emotion (e.g. “Do you know how many children in our country are malnourished?”)

4.  As always, one of the keys to getting comfortable, is practice, practice, practice.  As you practice your speech, you will begin to get a more conversational rhythm.  You can also practice with your volume to ensure that you have a conversational tone and that everyone will be able to hear you.

There are some good places to start.  Let’s keep this conversation open and comment back to me on what you think and how its working for you.

You may ask.  ”But, I’m covering a very technical topic, don’t I need to be more formal?”

No, you don’t have to.  And, I will cover tips and techniques for public speaking with a technical topic in a post very soon.

To your success,

Ellen